Thursday, January 22, 2009

Christmas Tags

Here is a list of activity ideas for the Christmas Tags I mentioned in a prior post.

December 1st


“Christmas means ‘giving.’ The Father gave His Son and the Son gave His life. Without giving there is no true Christmas, and without sacrifice there is no true worship”. (Gordon B. Hinkley)

“Christmas means ‘giving,’ and the gift without the giver is bare. Give of yourselves; give of your substance; give of your heart and mind. … “Christmas means ‘compassion and love’ and, most of all ‘forgiveness’ … How poor indeed would be our lives without the influence of His teachings and His matchless example. … “He whose birth we commemorate this season is more than the symbol of a holiday. He is the Son of God, … the Redeemer of mankind, the King of Kings, the Prince of Peace”.

“For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace”
(Isa. 9:6).

Gather or decorate 24 ornaments or tags for your Christmas tree and place them
in a basket under the tree.Each time you complete an act of service, put an ornament on the tree.


December 2nd

“Precious little is written concerning the childhood of Jesus. One might suppose that His birth was so revolutionary in its magnitude as to dominate accounts of His boyhood. We marvel at the mature wisdom of the boy who, leaving Joseph and Mary, was found in the temple, ‘sitting in the midst of the doctors,’ teaching them the gospel. When Mary and Joseph expressed their concern about His absence, He asked of them the penetrating question: ‘Wist ye not that I must be about my Father’s business?’ “The sacred record declares of Him: ‘Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man’ ” (Thomas S. Monson).

“God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Ghost and with power: who went about doing good, and healing all that were oppressed of the devil; for God was with him” (Acts 10:38).

Attend or watch the Christmas Devotional broadcast from Salt Lake City.

December 3rd

“Have a joyous time in celebrating Christmas—for despite discouragement and disheartening conditions throughout the world, it is the happiest season of the whole year. But let us ever keep in mind that people are most blessed whose daily conduct most nearly comports with the teachings and example of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, at whose birth was proclaimed: Peace on earth. Good will toward men” (David O. McKay).

“But behold I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them who despitefully use you and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father who is in heaven” (3 Ne. 12:44–45).

Forgive someone who has offended you. Write them a note or do something kind for them.

December 4th

“I testify that Christ is the light to all mankind. He has pointed, marked out, and lighted the way. … But even to those who reject Him, He is ‘the light which shineth in the darkness’ (John 1:5)” (Ezra Taft Benson).

“And the light which shineth, which giveth you light, is through him who enlighteneth your eyes, which is the same light that quickeneth your understandings; … The light which is in all things, which giveth life to all things, which is the law by which all things are governed, even the power of God” (D&C 88:11, 13).

Drive through your neighborhood and look at the Christmas lights. As you look at the lights this season think about what they mean. Look up “Light of Christ” in the Bible Dictionary paying special attention to the second paragraph. Then look up “Light of Christ” or “Light” in the Topical Guide. Find one scripture you think is important to you and write it on a piece of paper. Place the scripture where you can see it.

December 5th

“Every member has made a covenant to do works of kindness as the Savior would do. So any call to bear witness and to care for others is not a request for extra service; it is a blessing designed by a loving Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus Christ. They have provided such calls as well as other settings, sometimes without a formal call, all for the same purpose. Each is a chance to prove what blessings flow from being a covenant people, and each is an opportunity for which you agreed to be accountable” (Henry B. Eyring).

“And also, ye yourselves will succor those that stand in need of succor; ye will administer of your substance unto him that standeth in need; and ye will not suffer that the beggar putteth up his petition to you in vain, and turn him out to perish” (Mosiah 4:16).

Do an act of kindness for a neighbor who is lonely.


December 6th

“Charity is accepting someone’s differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended when someone doesn’t handle something the way we might have hoped. Charity is refusing to take advantage of another’s weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. Charity is expecting the best of each other”
(Marvin J. Ashton).

“And charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. … But charity is the pure love of Christ, and it endureth forever; and whoso is found possessed of it at the last day, it shall be well with him” (Moro. 7:45, 47).

Listen to Christmas music and make cookies. Deliver them to someone who needs cheering up.

December 7th

“To remain true and faithful through this mortal vale of tears, we must love God with all our heart, might, mind, and strength and love our neighbor as ourselves. … We must gather strength from each other. We must also ‘succor the weak, lift up the hands which hang down, and strengthen the feeble knees’ ” (James E. Faust).

“For I was an hungered, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me. … Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me”
(Matt. 25: 35–36, 40).

Take some canned food to the food bank.

December 8th

“Each of us has his own way of remembering. At Christmas time I take delight in visiting the widows and widowers from the ward where I served as bishop. There were 87 then—just nine today. On such visits, I never know what to expect; but this I do know: visits like these provide for me the Christmas spirit, which is, in reality, the Spirit of Christ” (Thomas S. Monson).

“For behold, the Spirit of Christ is given to every man, that he may know good from evil; wherefore, I show unto you the way to judge; for every thing which inviteth to do good, and to persuade to believe in Christ, is sent forth by the power and gift of Christ; wherefore ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of God”
(
Moro. 7:16).

Call a family member who lives away from home.

December 9th

“Despite all we can do, we cannot have a fullness of joy in this world or through our own efforts. Only in Christ can our joy be full. This is why the angel proclaimed: ‘I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day … a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord’ (Luke 2:10–11). We are able to have a fullness of joy only when spirit and body are inseparably connected in the glorious resurrection to celestial glory. That joy, of course, comes only through the mercy of the Holy Messiah” (Dallin H. Oaks).

“And lo, he cometh unto his own, that salvation might come unto the children of men even through faith on his name. … And he shall rise the third day from the dead; and behold, he standeth to judge the world”
(Mosiah 3:9–10).

Visit the temple and do baptisms for the dead.

December 10th

“Thoughts of Jesus … [should] be far more frequent and much more constant in all times and seasons of our lives. How often do we think of the Savior? How deeply and how gratefully and how adoringly do we reflect on his life? How central to our lives do we know him to be?” (Howard W. Hunter).

“Counsel with the Lord in all thy doings, and he will direct thee for good; yea, when thou liest down at night lie down unto the Lord, that he may watch over you in your sleep; and when thou risest in the morning let thy heart be full of thanks unto God; and if ye do these things, ye shall be lifted up at the last day” (Alma 37:37).

Read an article from the December issue of the Ensign, New Era or Friend

December 11th

11. “We need not wait for Christmas, we need not postpone till Thanksgiving Day our response to the Savior’s tender admonition: ‘Go, and do thou likewise’ ” (Thomas S. Monson).

“A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead. And by chance there came down a certain priest that way: and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. … But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him, And went to him, … and took care of him. … Which now of these … was neighbour unto him that fell among the thieves?”
(Luke 10:30–31, 33–34, 36).

Make sack lunches and deliver them to the homeless.


December 12th


“He whose birth the Christian world celebrates is indeed the Son of God, the Redeemer, the Promised Messiah. No message is more significant than the one He brought. No event is of greater importance than His atoning sacrifice and subsequent resurrection. And no mortal tongue can express sufficient thanks for all that Jesus has done for us” (Ezra Taft Benson).

“Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed” (Isa. 53:4–5).

Attend the Nativity festival.

December 13th

13. “As we remember the Savior, we remember an empty tomb, a symbol that the Lord has risen and a promise to all of the Resurrection and life after death. Because of our Savior’s Atonement, in death’s darkness there is no sting, in death’s depression there is no victory” (Robert D. Hales).

“[Then] came Mary Magdalene and the other Mary to see the sepulchre. And, behold, there was a great earthquake: for the angel of the Lord descended from heaven, and came and rolled back the stone from the door, and sat upon it [and said] He is not here: for he is risen, as he said” (Matt. 28:1–2, 6).

Read the accounts of the Resurrection in the New Testament and in 3 Nephi.

December 14th

“That we might love one another, and through that love contribute to the establishment of peace. That was the great message heralded by the heavenly hosts at the birth of the Savior, when they declared, ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men’ (Luke 2:14). To proclaim that message to an indifferent world is the divine responsibility of the Church. What greater message could there be?” (David O. McKay).

“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you. … By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:34–35).

Remember Christmas is a special time to wish for peace on earth. Do something for a person serving in the military.

December 15th

“I testify that the Savior will come again, and that at his second coming some will say, ‘What are these wounds in thine hands and in thy feet?’ He will show the wounds in His hands, wrists, and feet, and they will ask when and where he received these wounds. He will answer: ‘I am Jesus that was crucified. I am the Son of God’ (D&C 45:51–52)” (James E. Faust).
“When the Son of man shall come in his glory, and all the holy angels with him, then shall he sit upon the throne of his glory: And before him shall be gathered all nations: and he shall separate them one from another, as a shepherd divideth his sheep from the goats”
(Matt. 25:31–32).

Do something special for the Ward missionaries.

December 16th

“While the prophets in the old land were receiving revelations from God, the people of Lehi on this, the American continent, were not left without guidance. … He revealed to them also, 600 years before Christ’s coming, that he would come, that he was the Savior of the world, that he would be persecuted and crucified, and that he would be resurrected. … They were told of the signs which would be shown on this, the American continent, at the time of Christ’s birth and crucifixion. Every word which had been revealed to them regarding these events was fulfilled” (N. Eldon Tanner).

“For behold, the time cometh [that] the Lord Omnipotent … shall come down from heaven among the children of men, and shall dwell in a tabernacle of clay, and shall go forth amongst men, working mighty miracles” (Mosiah 3:5).

Use the Book of Mormon Index to find references to the first or second coming of the Savior. Make a list of things you are doing to prepare for the time Christ comes again.

December 17th

“At this Christmas season, I hope that we may cultivate grateful hearts so that we may cherish the multitude of blessings that God has so graciously bestowed. May we openly express such gratitude to our Father in Heaven and our fellowmen” (James E. Faust).

“And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more”
(D&C 78:19).

Write a letter or call your parents, bishop, visiting or home teachers, or others thanking them for the things they have done for you.

December 18th

“Each of us is a partaker oText Colorf the experience called death. None escapes. Were we to remain unrescued, lost would be paradise sought. Lost would be family loved. Lost would be friends remembered. Realizing this truth, we begin to appreciate the supreme joy which accompanied the birth of the Savior of the world. How glorious the pronouncement of the angel: Behold, a virgin ‘shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his people from their sins’ (Matt. 1:21)” (Thomas S. Monson).

“Behold I say unto you, that as these things are true, and as the Lord God liveth, there is none other name given under heaven save it be this Jesus Christ, of which I have spoken, whereby man can be saved” (2 Ne. 25:20).

Offer a prayer of thanksgiving, asking for nothing but thanking Heavenly Father for all of your many blessings, especially for the gift of His Son, Jesus Christ.

December 19th

“In mortality, the babe of Bethlehem’s birth and life, concluding with the atoning sacrifice, was prophesied by ancient prophets in all dispensations. Only he could make the atoning sacrifice—having received the power over death from his Father. He overcame death, the grave’s power was nullified, and he became our Savior, Mediator, and Master of the Resurrection—a means of salvation and immortality to all of us” (Robert D. Hales).

“And now, after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives! … That by him, and through him, and of him, the worlds are and were created, and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters unto God” (D&C 76:22, 24).

Learn the words to the song "This is the Christ."

December 20th

“Christ suffered for the sins and sorrows and pains of all the rest of the human family, providing remission for all of our sins as well, upon conditions of obedience. … As the Apostle Paul wrote, we were ‘bought with a price’ (1 Cor. 6:20). What an expensive price and what a merciful purchase! … “Perhaps we do not always attach that kind of meaning to our weekly sacramental service. … Do we see it as our passover, remembrance of our safety and deliverance and redemption?” (Jeffrey R. Holland).

“And the church did meet together oft, to fast and to pray, and to … partake of bread and wine, in remembrance of the Lord Jesus. And they were strict to observe that there should be no iniquity among them” (Moro. 6:5–7).


Watch the movie "The Bishop's Wife." Write down one thing you are going to remember to do this week which will bring you closer to the Savior.

December 21st

“The Book of Mormon is the keystone in our witness of Jesus Christ, who is Himself the cornerstone of everything we do. It bears witness of His reality with power and clarity. … Much of the Christian world today rejects the divinity of the Savior. They question His miraculous birth, His perfect life, and the reality of His glorious resurrection. The Book of Mormon teaches in plain and unmistakable terms about the truth of all of those” (Ezra Taft Benson).

“Wherefore, redemption cometh in and through the Holy Messiah; for he is full of grace and truth. … Wherefore, he is the first fruits unto God, inasmuch as he shall make intercession for all the children of men; and they that believe in him shall be saved” (2 Nephi. 2:6, 9).

Invite a friend to attend the Sacrament Metting Christmas Program.

December 22rd

“The Son of God, he who was the great Jehovah and condescended to be born in Bethlehem’s manger; he who went about doing good, blessing and healing the people; he who gave his life on Calvary’s cross in the great atoning sacrifice; he who rose from the dead the third day. He lives, and sits on the right hand of his father. He is our Lord, our Redeemer, our guide, our helper, and our friend, through whose atonement there has been opened the gate of immortality and eternal life. This is a beautiful and a blessed season. Let us rejoice in the Lord Jesus Christ and in his most basic of teachings—to do good always” (Gordon B. Hinckley).

“As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith” (Gal. 6:10).

Deliver Christmas treats to members of the Ward.

December 23rd

“Joseph Smith lived as an instrument in the hands of the Lord for the establishment of His restored work in this, the dispensation of the fullness of times. He died in testimony of the Savior of mankind” (Gordon B. Hinckley).

“Joseph Smith, the Prophet and Seer of the Lord, has done more, save Jesus only, for the salvation of men in this world, than any other man that ever lived in it” (D&C 135:3).

Today is the birthday of Joseph Smith. Watch The Work and the Glory.



December 24th




Giving, not getting, brings to full bloom the Christmas spirit. Enemies are forgiven, friends remembered, and God obeyed. The spirit of Christmas illuminates the picture window of the soul, and we look out upon the world’s busy life and become more interested in people and things. To catch the real meaning of the spirit of Christmas, we need only to drop the last syllable and it becomes the Spirit of Christ” (Thomas S. Monson).

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life” (
John 3:16).

Read the account of the birth of the Savior in the New Testament. Watch the movie "The Natvity.




December 25th



“True happiness comes only by making others happy—the practical application of the Savior’s doctrine of losing one’s life to gain it. In short, the Christmas spirit is the Christ spirit, that makes our hearts glow in brotherly love and friendship and prompts us to kind deeds of service.
“It is the spirit of the gospel of Jesus Christ, obedience to which will bring ‘peace on earth,’ because it means—good will toward all men” (David O. McKay).

Share your feelings as a family about the experience you had this year "Keeping Christmas."

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Kindred Spirits ... Super Moms



I have a new cyber friend, a true kindred spirit! Her name is Lyndsay Johnson. You may have heard of her. She's an amazing Graphic Designer and full time mom. In fact, we got acquainted when I asked her to design the Beutler Blog. (Don't you just love our new look!) Anyway, Lyndsay has a really great blog herself and I like to check it out on occasion because she always has something interesting to share. Right now, she's doing a series called "Super Moms" and each week she has one of her friends share tips for staying organized, shopping, cleaning, going Green, etc. Last week, Lyndsay emailed me and asked me if I would write a piece for her Super Mom series. I was a little shocked. I've never considered myself a Super Mom at all! But, I have to admit, I felt honored to be amongst the women who have already been featured. I learned something from each of them!

If you are looking for someone to create a new look for your own blog page, Lyndsay's your girl. You can go to her business blog by clicking on the little button
"Banners by Lyndsay" on the bottom right hand side of Beutler Life. Check her out, you will be glad that you did. And, just in case you are wondering .... here's what I wrote for her Super Mom series......

Can I just say how honored I am to do a little piece for Lyndsay's Super Mom series. I've never considered myself a Super Mom in any way, shape or form. I look at everyone else and think: “How do they do all that??” But, after I thought about it, I guess I am a Super Mom. I'm super busy – all the time, super tired – all the time, and super fortunate – because I’m the mother of two super kids. There you have it. I accept the title, and the assignment to write.

I guess if there's one thing I've learned in life it's that we are always going to be busy, and there is never going to be enough time to do all the things we dream of doing. Me, I dream of creating. It doesn't matter what – I just need to create. It’s the thing that keeps me going when I’m looking at piles of laundry, and a house scattered with backpacks and shoes. Personally, I think everyone should make time to create, even if what you are creating is a beautiful clean house. It feeds the soul. So here is a little blurb about how I’ve made time for the things I love as I’ve gone through different phases of motherhood.

When my children were really little, it was hard to find time to be creative. They hit the ground running when they woke up (at 5:30 a.m) and didn't stop until they fell asleep at 8:00. That meant I had a small amount of time to spend with my husband, and an even smaller amount of time to spend on myself. It was hard. But, I made a plan. Once a month I set aside a Saturday just for me, and sometimes I would include a weeknight. I used the time to take creative classes like sewing, cooking, art, ceramics, print making …. Taking a class forced me out of the house and into a world where I could focus -- where I could make a mess. It also gave me the opportunity to meet other people who inspired me. Most of the women I met were in their 60's and still creating. In fact, they were really good at what they were doing. I remember thinking: “If I stick with this, some day I'm going to be amazing!” I loved those women and I loved those classes. It filled my cup so that I had the energy to deal with the routines in life. And you know something …. I never got amazing at any of those classes, but it didn’t matter. I learned that the joy is in the process!!!!!

When my kids entered elementary school, I thought: "Boy I'm going to have all sorts of time to do stuff for myself." Little did I know that I would spend half of that time at school helping out in the class. Then another problem cropped up. My kids got involved in all sorts of after school activities like dance and soccer. I had huge amounts of time where I was just sitting and waiting. So, I used that time to create. I sat at dance lessons with my big pile of craft supplies, and worked away at whatever I was interested in doing at the moment. I quilted, made books, jewelry, cards, blankets, hats, and get this -- pretty soon it sparked all kinds of conversation. I met tons of women, who said: “Oh, I can’t do that … I’m not creative.” Guess what – they were creative, they just didn’t know it. I taught them how to sew, how to quilt, how to knit. It was so much fun. In fact, the owner of the dance studio asked me if I had ever sewn costumes. I said: "If you count Halloween, then.... yes!" And that answer lead to a job. I became a costume designer/fabricator for the dance competition teams. (Visualize, the costumes you see on "So You Think You Can Dance" times 150). It was the hardest, most stressful thing I've ever done. I had no idea what I was doing, but I figured it out. Boy, did I learn a lot. I took my sewing machine to dance and worked while my kids were in class. I also had to work at night after they had gone to sleep. I was SO TIRED, but it was fun. That job gave me a creative outlet that lasted 5 years. I loved seeing all my creations on stage, and I made enough money to pay for all those dance lessons. I learned that sometimes you have to brave enough to take a chance. You never know where your creative energy will lead you. I learned that sometimes you have to overcome the fear of failure. Look at all those women who learned to be creative!! And … I learned that you can make money doing what you love.

Now, my children are in middle school. I'm no longer sewing, or working in the class, and my kids don't require quite as much attention. I actually have time to do what I love!! So, last year, I was a little stumped. I had no idea what I wanted to do. My niece suggested checking out Etsy. "What is Etsy?" I asked. When she explained it was a cyber store dedicated to "handmade" goods, I got excited. I took a look around Etsy and knew I had found just what I was looking for. I created my own cyber shop -- Crystal B (with nothing in it.) I got out all the "stuff" I had been making, took photos, and listed it in my store. Once that got going, I got all sorts of calls from friends who suggested that I hold quarterly open houses so that they could come and buy directly from me. I also had another creative friend say: “Hey, you should be a vendor at my holiday boutique.” So I did! That is where I'm currently having the most success – open houses. I learned that if you have friends who are willing to open their homes in exchange for merchandise, you may be able to make some great money to support your creative habits.
Now, I dedicate two afternoons a week to making inventory to sell. I treat it like I would treat a job so that I don't give up my creative time in lieu of dentist appointments and other things that seem to creep up on a regular basis.
One last thing, and then I will sign off. I can't say enough about blogging. I have visited many sites of creative women (like Lyndsay!!!!!) who have inspired me in ways that they will never know. I read their words and think: "That is one amazing woman!! If she can do it, so can I."
Thank you all you crafting women who blog. It's nice having a world of kindred spirits out there to keep me motivated as I press forward into the unknown.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Holiday Hangover

It's a brand new, unused year! The possibilities are endless. But instead of making plans, I've been looking around at all the Christmas paraphernalia, piles of laundry, messy cupboards, grey window panes and dirty carpet thinking ... "how am I ever going to get all this cleaned up." I get exhausted just thinking about it. I've resorted to sitting on the sofa ..... staring into space. I was talking about it to a friend of my the other day. "Chantel", I said, "Do you ever get that way?" Her answer was plain and simple: "You have holiday hangover." (Holiday Hangover. Finally, a name for my yearly funk.) That's it in a nutshell. Think about it .... we've been having non-stop parties and activities since October 31st. Who wouldn't be tired! So, this year, I've decided to give myself a break. I'm going to nurse my hangover by simply doing nothing for a few days and then, when my symptoms subside, I'll get out my cleaning supplies, including the trash bags, and officially welcome 2009.